Don't Forget to Tell Daddy
Being a mom to little kids with a spouse who travels for work presents its own set of challenges, especially when it comes to keeping up with communication between your children and their traveling parent. It's heartwarming to see how excited our littles get to share their day's adventures with their dad, but time zone differences and busy schedules can make those moments fleeting. That's why I've discovered a simple yet powerful way to bridge the gap and ensure that no special memory goes unshared. In this blog post, I'll introduce you to the "Don't Forget to Tell Daddy” Journal – a meaningful tool I’ve developed for us to capture and cherish the memories your kids want to share with their dad.
Turning Excitement into Lasting Memories:
Does this scenario sound familiar? Your kids eagerly gather around the screen during a FaceTime call with their dad, bursting with excitement to share all the stories, achievements, and little moments from their day. However, as soon as the call begins, their minds go blank, and they struggle to remember what they were so eager to share. I've been there too, and that's why I decided to create a solution that not only preserves these precious memories but also builds anticipation for your kids.
Introducing the "Don't Forget to Tell Daddy" Journal:
The idea is simple: use the journal to jot down the special things that happen each day – the achievements, the funny anecdotes, the heartwarming moments – anything your kids want to share with their dad. There is also space to write where daddy is and how many “sleeps” as my kids call it, until he comes home. The product is a charming repository of memories that might otherwise slip through the cracks of mom brain and kid brain.
How It Works:
For us, it works best to capture memories daily: We set aside a few minutes each day, usually right before we read a book for the night, to sit down and talk about my little’s day. I encourage them to share anything they want to tell their dad. It could be a new word they learned, a funny incident at school, or even a dream they had. I guarantee you, there will be some funnies in there you and your husband will laugh about!
If your kids are too little to write on their own, ask them what they want you to write. Use their words as much as possible and write down their stories. Let their big personalities shine through in the entries. Knowing that they have a special place to record their thoughts will build excitement for your kids. They'll look forward to telling their dad about their day.
This might be one of the best parts, when your spouse returns, you'll have a treasure trove of heartwarming and memorable moments to share. Together, you can read through the journal and relive those experiences.
Benefits of the "Don't Forget to Tell Daddy" Journal:
Preserving Memories: This journal becomes a tangible memory bank, capturing the unique essence of your children's experiences during your spouse's travels.
Enhancing Communication: It creates a bridge between your kids and their traveling parent, fostering deeper connections despite physical distance.
Anticipatory Joy: Your kids will eagerly anticipate sharing their daily adventures, making the FaceTime calls even more meaningful.
Quality Time: The process of journaling together becomes an opportunity for quality time and bonding between you and your children.
The "Don't Forget to Tell Daddy" journal isn't just about writing down stories; it's about creating a living chronicle of your children's lives and experiences. It's a gift that keeps on giving, capturing the magic of childhood and ensuring that no precious memory is lost. As moms navigating the challenges of solo parenting when our spouses travel, this journal is a testament to our creativity, love, and commitment to creating lasting connections for our families. So, grab a notebook, start jotting down those daily adventures, and watch as your family's bond grows stronger, one memory at a time.
